Sex is important for relationships. Once you have been intimate with your significant other it becomes apart of the relationship; a way to express your love or even take out some frustration (make-up sex?). No matter what reason your doing the no-pants-dance it plays more of a role in your relationship than you may think. So when one person is unhappy with the intimacy in the relationship or it disappears, your love boat might be sinking quicker than the Titanic.
Need to put the fun back in sex? Get him/her in the mood again? Spice it up? Just throw some Adobo on it and yell BAM! like Emril…Just kidding, sort of.
Start off the day by sending your lover a sexy text message reminding them of how sexy you think they are, or how you canʼt wait to be alone later this evening. Even go as far as saying WHAT you want to do to them. This will help get the juices flowing and the anticipation building.
Surprise them with a romantic home-cooked meal that is your partners favorite. They will recognize how you did something special just for them, and food is a great aphrodisiac. (Wearing nothing but an apron to cook this meal might turn on the flame as well).
After dinner, why not take your partner upstairs and help them unwind from a long day with a nice massage? Touching each others bodies and getting all of the kinks out will definitely help with the relaxation and guess what? When your relaxed itʼs easier to orgasm and multiple orgasms are possible.
So pick a day and surprise your lover with an evening they will never forget and get that flame going again! Because we all know how dark it can be without it.
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