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Posted on Sep 16, 2011 by — advice — Add your take!

Don’t Currently Have a Girlfriend? Get into the Next Best Thing… a ‘Friends with Benefits’ Relationship.

At the moment I’m in between relationships. Sad I know. But that shouldn’t stop me from enjoying the finer things in life. And by finer things in life I mean, the only thing that really matters to all guys out there, PUSSY.

Your probably asking yourself “Friends with Benefits? Really?” Yes really. Don’t watch that horrid Justin Timberlake movie as an example of what to expect. According to a Michigan State University study 74 percent of Friends with Benefits relationships don’t destroy the friendship. YAY!

If romcoms are to be believed, FWB situations always end up with the friends living sexily ever after. Now, you’re savvy enough to know that’s super far-fetched—the same Michigan State study found that only 10 percent of FWB arrangements end in real romantic relationships.

But here’s the shocking part: They also found that just 26 percent of FWB actually ended in a wrecked friendship. Here’s a better way to look at it: 74 percent of FWB relationships DON’T destroy the friendship.

If you enter a Friends with Benefits relationship you have a 10% chance of becoming sweethearts (awww!) and a 74% chance of keeping your current friendship. Sounds win win, right? That’s because it is.

You have the math/ statistics in your corner so get out there and start some Friends with Benefiting!!

Here’s some good tips:

8 ways to turn a female friend into more (for all you guys out there)

or

From Gal Pal To Girlfriend…In 3 Easy Steps (for the ladies)

via lifestyle.msn.com

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Posted on Oct 21, 2010 by — advice, Broads/Sex — Add your take!

Is It That Time?

There comes a time when you ask yourself, “Is it that time?” When youʼve been dating someone for a period of time, but without a title, you begin to wonder if itʼs time to make things official. Although itʼs just a title, it does come with certain responsibilities; itʼs not just “boyfriend” and “girlfriend”. You have to worry about getting drunk and having a random bar hook-up that you may or may not remember the next morning. You can look, but you canʼt touch. And you are now obligated to buy birthday, Christmas, Hanukkah gifts and spend money on that god awful holiday known as Valentines Day. (Iʼm so miserable arenʼt I? Iʼd like to shoot cupid with his own arrow!)


So how do you know when itʼs time to make things official? Nothing is ever going to be perfect, so if youʼre waiting for that youʼre going to be waiting a very, very long time. The worst thing you could do is rush into a relationship, so if you have only been dating for a month, itʼs to soon! Youʼre still in the “infatuation” stage and you should wait until you know each other better. Itʼs going to take a while before you feel you know everything about one another, even though you will never know everything, but knowing too little isnʼt good either.

Since you are both adults, and this will never work without communication, at some point a conversation should be had about where you both see it going (this conversation can be around a month or two). At this point, if you both arenʼt looking for the same thing there is no point in continuing and itʼs best you both part ways. If you both arenʼt ready for a relationship just yet but like the direction you are both headed in, just enjoy the ride until itʼs “that time.” Just remember, if you decide to be together, there are going to be upʼs alast and be happy!

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Posted on Aug 05, 2010 by — advice, Broads/Sex, Socializing — Add your take!

Friends, Or More Than?

When you first begin talking to someone, there is something that must be discussed right away or your in for a roller-coaster ride of bullshit. Either this is just a fling where you will have great sex (hopefully) or you will be dating at some point, where feelings will come into play. Sounds easy right? Well itʼs not. One of the biggest mistakes you can make is assume that the other person wants to be more than, when they donʼt.

This doesnʼt have to be an awkward conversation either. Youʼre both mature adults right? (Yes, even though you play video games for 5 hours after work in your undies, you can still be mature). If you were looking for something more and she isnʼt, then take it for what it is and just enjoy the fun. But there are two rules that you must follow.

1.Donʼt ask questions! You donʼt want to know if sheʼs dating someone else, if she is sleeping with someone else, where she is going or who she is with. It has to be strictly a “Want to come over?” relationship. The more you know, the more you will become needy, get an attitude, jealous and just fuck this up. (Say no all you want, this ALWAYS happens).

2.Donʼt say how you feel! Now normally I would suggest that you always tell someone how you feel about them, but in this case itʼs better to just keep quiet. If you tell her that you are catching feelings, she may run for cover and thatʼs the end of your fun- stress-free relationship.

As long as that boundary isnʼt crossed, tip-toed near or even glanced at you should have no problems.

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