Lets face it- Nobody waits until marriage to have sex anymore (well, very few people that I know of anyway). Some people have sex on the first date, some people wait until theyʼve been dating for a while; it depends on your personal morals and sex drive. Once youʼve made the decision to be monogamous with someone or have gotten into a relationship with someone the boundaries disappear and you donʼt have to worry about where your next orgasm is coming from… or do you?
How much sex is “normal” when youʼre in a relationship? Have you ever wondered if youʼre having enough? Every single relationship is different. No matter what your friends, co-workers, or even partner tell you no two relationships are the same. Just because your friend is having sex 3 times a night, 4 nights a week doesnʼt mean thatʼs the norm. There are tons of different factors into a couples sexual habits. Do they live together? How often do they see each other? What kind of stress do they deal with? What are their sex drives? Are the satisfied with the sex they are having? And tons of others. So donʼt think that just because you have less sex than someone you know means youʼre abnormal.
If you are unhappy with how often you and your partner are having sex talk to them about it. The worst thing you could do is to hold it in and hope it gets better because if it doesnʼt youʼre more likely to go find it somewhere else- and cheating is NOT the right answer to the problem. Talk to your partner and tell them you think you should be having sex more often or just jump their bones when there looking all sexy on the couch. And if the reason your not having more sex is because itʼs become boring or routine, you can change that!
Once you have sex with someone youʼre in a relationship it becomes a part of that relationship and it needs to stay healthy just like you. When the sex decreases… so do other things.
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