There are some things that people just canʼt bring themselves to say. Yes, I love you might be one of them but after a few shots anyone will say I love you to a complete stranger at the was wrong?
I see this as two different issues. The first being this: When youʼve done something that has upset or hurt someone and you want forgiveness all you do is say “Iʼm sorry, please forgive me” over and over and over again until you either A. the person forgives you or B. you annoy that person so much that they punch you in the face and you canʼt speak anymore. This kind of saying sorry isnʼt hard. You donʼt think about saying it for hours and hours before you can actually work up the nerve to say it.
When your fighting with someone and you throw out a low blow, do something stupid or whatever it is but itʼs YOUR fault, why is it so hard to say Iʼm sorry the fight was my fault, I shouldnʼt of said that? I know that itʼs not easy for me to say it. Iʼll think about saying it, type the text message and then erase it before I actually send it; think about saying it on the phone or in person and then just go silent for a few minutes. I have learned something (due to my numerous fuck ups- nobody is perfect) after you finally say it you feel SO much better and chances are the other person will respect you a bit more and forgive you for being the bigger person and admitting that you were wrong. Itʼs not easy, but in the end itʼs worth it and you can move on to the make-up sex.
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