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Posted on Sep 16, 2011 by — advice — Add your take!

Don’t Currently Have a Girlfriend? Get into the Next Best Thing… a ‘Friends with Benefits’ Relationship.

At the moment I’m in between relationships. Sad I know. But that shouldn’t stop me from enjoying the finer things in life. And by finer things in life I mean, the only thing that really matters to all guys out there, PUSSY.

Your probably asking yourself “Friends with Benefits? Really?” Yes really. Don’t watch that horrid Justin Timberlake movie as an example of what to expect. According to a Michigan State University study 74 percent of Friends with Benefits relationships don’t destroy the friendship. YAY!

If romcoms are to be believed, FWB situations always end up with the friends living sexily ever after. Now, you’re savvy enough to know that’s super far-fetched—the same Michigan State study found that only 10 percent of FWB arrangements end in real romantic relationships.

But here’s the shocking part: They also found that just 26 percent of FWB actually ended in a wrecked friendship. Here’s a better way to look at it: 74 percent of FWB relationships DON’T destroy the friendship.

If you enter a Friends with Benefits relationship you have a 10% chance of becoming sweethearts (awww!) and a 74% chance of keeping your current friendship. Sounds win win, right? That’s because it is.

You have the math/ statistics in your corner so get out there and start some Friends with Benefiting!!

Here’s some good tips:

8 ways to turn a female friend into more (for all you guys out there)

or

From Gal Pal To Girlfriend…In 3 Easy Steps (for the ladies)

via lifestyle.msn.com

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Posted on Aug 11, 2011 by — Link Dump — Add your take!

Bachelor Links for Thursday August 11.

Fashion Model Erin Heatherton in a Bikini!

25 Signs You’re Ready For A Relationship [yourtango]

The Amazing World of Drug Submarines Infographic [egotv]

The Best Pictures tweeted by Jenna Jameson [thesmokingjacket]

Baseball Fight: Tony Phillips Drops Mike Marshall In a Brawl [bustedcoverage]

Watch a 100 Movie Explosions in 200 Seconds [flisted]

John Stamos’ Guide to Cuddling is a Helpful Resource [guyism]

Jessica Alba decides to take Jimmy Kimmel down to her birthing class [heavy]

5 Words That If Women Say Really Means You’re in Trouble [singleblackmale]

A Guide to Overthrowing a Third World Country In Five Easy Steps [thesmokingjacket]

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Posted on Apr 27, 2011 by — advice — Add your take!

How Much Is Enough?

Lets face it- Nobody waits until marriage to have sex anymore (well, very few people that I know of anyway). Some people have sex on the first date, some people wait until theyʼve been dating for a while; it depends on your personal morals and sex drive. Once youʼve made the decision to be monogamous with someone or have gotten into a relationship with someone the boundaries disappear and you donʼt have to worry about where your next orgasm is coming from… or do you?

How much sex is “normal” when youʼre in a relationship? Have you ever wondered if youʼre having enough? Every single relationship is different. No matter what your friends, co-workers, or even partner tell you no two relationships are the same. Just because your friend is having sex 3 times a night, 4 nights a week doesnʼt mean thatʼs the norm. There are tons of different factors into a couples sexual habits. Do they live together? How often do they see each other? What kind of stress do they deal with? What are their sex drives? Are the satisfied with the sex they are having? And tons of others. So donʼt think that just because you have less sex than someone you know means youʼre abnormal.

If you are unhappy with how often you and your partner are having sex talk to them about it. The worst thing you could do is to hold it in and hope it gets better because if it doesnʼt youʼre more likely to go find it somewhere else- and cheating is NOT the right answer to the problem. Talk to your partner and tell them you think you should be having sex more often or just jump their bones when there looking all sexy on the couch. And if the reason your not having more sex is because itʼs become boring or routine, you can change that!

Once you have sex with someone youʼre in a relationship it becomes a part of that relationship and it needs to stay healthy just like you. When the sex decreases… so do other things.

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Posted on Feb 24, 2011 by — advice — 1 comment

What Is Cheating?

Get that sarcastic remark out of your head please! Thank you. Now we can begin. Yes, I know that sleeping with your boyfriends best friend and/or brother is considered cheating. Iʼm not THAT much of a moron. But is sleeping with someone the only thing that constitutes as serious cheating?

I had a conversation with a co-worker this weekend (when we should have been working) about her and her ex. She told me about how all she did was put her hand in a mutual friends back pocket while they were at a bar and all hell broke loose. Is that cheating or jealousy?

What qualifies as cheating is different to different people. Why? I thought cheating is cheating. Itʼs wrong. Some people consider flirting with a member of the opposite sex cheating while others only consider cheating if you break a physical boundary between you and the other person. I say that if you have to even think “Is this cheating?” then your probably shouldnʼt be doing it. If your doing something that you know you would get mad about if the roles were reversed, you probably shouldnʼt be doing it. And you definitely, DEFINITELY should not be doing any of this with your significant other in the same vicinity.

So letʼs get this straight… CHEATING=BAD. Got it?

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Posted on Nov 26, 2010 by — advice, Broads/Sex — Add your take!

Whose Number Is That?

Everyone knows that when someone says, “I want to play with your phone,” it really means, “Iʼm going to look through your messages and recent calls.” If this is your friends phone, itʼs really not a big deal, it doesnʼt matter what you find, but if itʼs your significant others phone, whatever you find matters.

Snooping is no bueno, it just shows that you donʼt trust the other person because if you did trust them, why snoop? Itʼs their phone, itʼs breaking the “privacy pact” that the two people have with one another. Instead of snooping through their phone, just ask. Now granted itʼs very easy for them to lie and say “No babe, Iʼm not talking to any other guys/ girls” and if you feel that they are lying- end the relationship. Snooping only makes
things worse.

Chances are you will find a message that from Jonathan that says “Hey, what time are you coming over later?”, you donʼt mention anything but your blood is bubbling inside and you unconsciously start fights with them for no reason only to find out a few days later that itʼs her/his second cousin.

And letʼs just say you find incoming or outgoing calls from a phone number that isnʼt saved. What are you going to do, call them? And say what Hi, who are you? Where can you possibly go from there. If your significant other is cheating, yelling at the person on the other end of the phone isnʼt going to do you any good, chances are they didnʼt even know that they were talking to someone who was in a relationship. Now you have to go to your partner and say you snooped and found something, which most likely, they will deny or say your making a big deal out of nothing.

Bottom line is donʼt snoop, you wonʼt like what you find and it will make matters worse. If you trust your partner then their phone is their phone, and your phone is yours. If the roles were reversed you wouldnʼt like them going through your phone even if you werenʼt hiding anything. Trust is the foundation for any relationship, if you donʼt have that, then get the fckkkkkkk outta there!

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Posted on Sep 02, 2010 by — advice — Add your take!

Breaking Up Is Hard To Do

I know this is supposed to be advice (or at least my thoughts) on dating, relationships, and sex. What about when your relationship comes to an end? And not just any end, a crash and burn, massive car pile-up, train wreck, house fire of an end. We all know there are two kinds of break-ups, the mature-civil ones (that very rarely IF ever seem to actually happen) and then the other ones (see my above description).
Regardless of how it happens, break-ups SUCK ASS. And our friends who are supposed to be there to console us during these rough times sometimes only make you feel worse. Throwing cliches out there like “There are many fish in the sea” and “You have to go through the wrong ones before you find the right ones”. LIES. A bunch of bullshit. I’m not Nemo, I donʼt live in the sea, and I donʼt want to go through all the wrong ones. (Note: Usually the friends with these cliches havenʼt been in a real relationship since kissing Michael behind the monkey bars in junior high school).


Best way to get over a bad break-up? Time. (Or as someone JUST told me, “The best cure for old pussy, is new pussy.”) Depending on how long you were with someone, it could take a long time to fully recover. If you donʼt feel up to dating right away, then donʼt let your friends set you up on a blind date. The post break-up random drunk bar hook-up isnʼt always a good idea either. Then youʼll just wake up with a hangover laying next to someone you canʼt remember their name and still depressed.
What Iʼm really saying is tell your friends to go scratch. Self-loathing will only make you feel worse. Keep your day to day routine. But ALWAYS make sure that if you break-up that itʼs for good, because once you end it if you try to go back it will never be the same.
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